Initial Consultation
Initial Planning
Full Service Plans
A-la-Carte Hourly Plans

 

Beach & Harbor Ceremony Sites
Park & Gazebo Ceremony Sites
Dove Release Ceremonies
Reception Sites
Horse & Carriage
Trolley & Limousine
Florists & Bakers
Ceremony Officiators
Photographers, Videographers
Music: Live or DJ Music for
Ceremony & Reception
Salon Service & Tuxedo Rental
Rentals: ceremony chairs & arbors (sand or land) candle lighting wind screens, mail boxes, bird cages & more...
Licensing Procedures
Rehearsal Dinners & Special Events

Wedding Planning Services

Profiling:  Personalized couple profile performed using questionnaire and interview process.

Planning:  Research facilities and service providers to suit your individual needs.

Budgeting:  Maximize your dollars - Maintain your budget - Cost cutting tips.

Scheduling - Reservations:  We make the calls, negotiate on your behalf, present options, handle bookings and execute contracts.

Etiquette - Traditions:  A complete library of reference materials to answer all of your questions and address your personal concerns.

Wedding Day Services:  Rehearsal Attendance and Supervision; Ceremony - Reception Site Prep & Coordination; Coordinate Officiator, Caterer, Photographer, Florist, Transportation, Entertainment, Bridal Party, Licensing, Decorating. Deliver Gratuities and Payments. Stay until the very end, if you wish.

We are often asked how Cape May Weddings work. And why a Cape May Wedding? Cape May is the Nation's Oldest Seashore Resort - America's only National Historic Landmark City. Cape May is third in the Country for destination weddings. Over 400 couples exchange vows in Cape May every year. The number of ceremonies increases by about 12% every year, and Cape May is only 2.25 square miles big!

Many couples want to be married on the beach with "their piggies in the sand." This is our specialty. The beaches are public and you can marry anywhere on the beach. Sunset Pavilion is our most popular beach ceremony site. It is a covered pavilion on the oceanfront at the Southern end of Beach Avenue with a beautiful view of the lighthouse, the Atlantic Ocean and those fabulous Sunsets.

Seasonality: Our busiest months for beach ceremonies are September, June, May and October, July and August in that order. April and November have also become popular for the more daring bride. January, February, March and December are more suitable for indoor ceremonies although we are always game for the bravest.

Wedding Planning Services*

Start with the Initial Consultation:
1 hour $75 fee - Required for Planning;  Call for an Appointment

Here's what to expect: We meet for up to one hour in the shop. We will discuss the scope of your event and determine what services you want and how much time it requires to plan your wedding. Initial Planning is the most appropriate next step. Those with very limited requirements can use A-la-Carte services to accomplish their goals.

If it is not convenient for you to come to Cape May we can arrange a mutually agreeable time for a phone consultation.  We will review in general:

Cape May Weddings
The Ceremony Site & Officiator Options
Reception Style and General Reception Site Options
Accommodations Options and Save The Date Announcements
Service Providers - Photographers, Musicians, Transportation, Videographers, Bakers, Salons, Rentals, Florists
Budgets and Cost of Reception and Related Services

There is a $75 charge for the Initial Consultation.  Your next decision will be to choose Initial Planning or A-la-Carte Package. You may need only two or three hours for A-la-Carte Planning; Or you may need 10 hours for Initial Planning. And you may choose a Full Service Plan to accomplish your goals.

I cannot plan your wedding in one hour. With that in mind, please understand that you will not receive a list of reception sites or a list of service providers in the Initial Consultation.

An in depth written Profile is completed along with an executed Planning Services Agreement before proceeding to actual planning.

*all rates subject to change

 

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Initial Planning Package:
$1,000 for 10 hours of Planning

Here's what to expect: Most often when you decide to engage our services you will either e-mail or call to request Initial Planning. After signing the Initial Plan Agreement and providing the detailed Profile information we can begin the planning process. The first priority is to search out and select the reception site which then sets the stage for the ceremony timing and bookings for all requested service providers. Once decisions have been made, individual contracts will be executed and deposits will be placed with the appropriate parties. 10 hours is sufficient time to get virtually all of your contracts in place provided you make decisions in a timely fashion. (I cannot make decisions for you.)

How many times will I have to come to Cape May during the planning process? The answer is as many as you want - but there will be at least 2. One is for the Initial Consultation and the other is to choose your reception site. Most couples visit 3 or 4 times during the planning process for florist and photographer visits, menu selections, ceremony and reception music programming, trolley schedules, invitation selection. The licensing procedures for out-of-state residents will necessitate an in-person visit sometime within 6 months of the wedding date and at least 72 full hours before the ceremony is scheduled. We plan about a dozen weddings a year for couples who live so far away that the first in-person meeting takes place 3 days prior to the ceremony. All other planning including the Initial Consultation is performed via phone, regular and e-mail.

*all rates subject to change

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Full Service Packages
$1,000 for 10 hours Initial Phase plus a flat hourly rate of $75
(35 / 50 / 80 hour packages)
Includes Rehearsal & Wedding Day Coordination

A-la-Carte Services - As Agreed
$100 per hour - 1st 10 hours ~ $75 per hour thereafter
($100 minimum)

Wedding Day Services
Rehearsal, Ceremony & Reception Coordination
($1,350 minimum)
Rehearsal and Ceremony Coordination
($950 minimum)
Rehearsal only Coordination
($400 minimum)

Personal Services
Invitation list prep, mailings, calligraphy, response tracking, seating arrangements and place card prep, save the date letter and accommodations options list prep, troubleshooting, inquiries, family accommodations, personal correspondence, personal stylist scheduling, etc. $50 per hour

*all rates subject to change

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